I was experiencing one of those nights when I couldn't sleep because I had my mind fixed on someone I cared about so much (to say it mildly); because I was missing her like crazy. And as if like an answer from the skies, I then received my daily newsletter from Askmen that was titled "How do you define Attraction", and I said to myself it couldn't have come at a better time.
So I went right down to it, because I've been asking myself this question for a very long time, what really was it that kept me attracted to this human embodiment of feminine attraction. "I didn't know" Or may be I knew and I felt my reasons were shallow and perverted, but after reading that newsletter, I discovered something.
That the answers were very simple::: and we all have our different definitions of what we consider attractive, its different in everyone of us, while in some cases it may take a longer time to see these points of attraction, they are often times physical (yes they can be seen with your own eyes) may be its her eyebrow, her leg, her feet, her beauty, or fingers it could be anything then as time goes by you begin to see the more intangible aspects of attraction, which are often referred to as her inner beauty which may be kindness, gentleness, intelligence and so on, the list is endless.
For more on this and to read how real people in great relationships define attraction, I've dropped a shortened link below to askmen's post on "How do you Define Attraction". bit.ly/RabnTU
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